Monday, March 31, 2025

Room to Move

 "You must have a room, or a certain hour or so a day, where you don't know what was in the newspapers that morning, you don't know who your friends are, you don't know what you owe anybody, you don't know what anybody owes to you. This is a place where you can simply experience and bring forth what you are and what you might be. This is the place of creative incubation. At first you may find that nothing happens there. But if you have a sacred place and use it, something eventually will happen."


~ Joseph Campbell   

  
This quote came this morning from an email from Friends of Silence. There are indeed times when unknowing is more powerful, more healing than knowing. Allowing ourselves time to find the balance between the two states is essential now. For the past few days I have been pondering the Greek word, metanoia. It is often translated as change. Yet, I recently heard a short presentation by Kathleen Flanagan, Director of Franciscan Ministries, and her talk expanded my understanding of what metanoia means. Her premise was that when both Jesus and St. Francis experienced metanoia, they were led deeper into their ministries of serving the poor, sick, and dying. Our metanoias can lead us to more fully understand our own calls to serve. 
Too often, we try to harden ourselves against change. However, after reading Rupert Sheldrake's book The Physics of Angels, co-authored with Matthew FoxI now envision our souls as fields of energy, and I do not believe these fields can be hardened, although our thinking and attitudes certainly can be. In her lovely book, The Yogi's Way, Reema Datta writes, "The Upanishads [ancient Sanskrit texts] describe our true Self as devoid of any fixed quality or characteristic." She goes on to explain that quantum physics has revealed that we are made up of cells that are made up of molecules that are in turn made up of atoms that are 99.9 percent empty space. Datta writes that again, according to her understanding of quantum physics, every object and person is a "field of pure potentiality" rather than fixed beings ( p. 106)."        
It is, of course, perilous to quote someone about quantum physics, or really, any subject, when you yourself know absolutely nothing about it. However, I love the phrase "pure potentiality". I once read that Stephen Hawking (1942-2018) contended that a better human was possible, and I have always believed, and will continue to do so, that humanity is headed in that direction. In a period that could truly be an exciting time of exploration and learning, I am sorry that the US voted to cling to a backward and solidified notion of who we are as a people. That decision, while by no means unilateral, is costly and disappointing, and is impacting not only us but the world. Hardened hearts and minds are seldom catalysts for growth and new understanding, but I will continue to hold the idea that at least some of our potential for good can be explored in this time.   
          


Out beyond ideas of wrongdoing and rightdoing,
There is a field. I'll meet you there.
When the soul lies down in that grass,
The world is too full to talk about.
Ideas, language, even the phrase each other
Doesn't make any sense.

Rumi, translated from Persian by Coleman Barks and John Moyne   


 
       
 



image: Half Moon Bay, a few years ago 

Friday, March 14, 2025

Novena, Day 5

 The last time I sent these novenas (2021), I changed the word love in the first and last lines to Christ. For this cycle, I reverted to Parrish-Harris' version. However, today I seek the great light that is Christ. However weary or ill we may feel, the work of Rupert Sheldrake has convinced me that our souls are energetic fields, always radiating.  Our work is to align our minds, bodies, and souls so we do not block the path to the work we are here to do.  In his deeply insightful book, Ladders to the Light, Steven Charleston writes, "I think you and I have been recruited as spiritual medics...Socially, economically, and politically, people are struggling around us. People are anxious, angry, and afraid." He goes on to say that it is into this reality that the spiritual medic is called upon to "leave the trenches and stand on open ground for the sake of peace."   

Take care of yourselves, dear friends. Your light is so needed in this world. 
    

I greet this day with Christ in my heart. 
I respond to the actions of others with love. 
Adversity and discouragement will beat 
against my shield of love and become soft as rain. 
My shield of love sustains me when I am alone, 
Uplifts me in moments of despair
And calms me in times of confusion. 
I awaken to the new day with vitality
and joy of living. 
As my courage increases, my enthusiasm rises. 
My desire to greet the world overcomes every fear.  
I accept happiness from the sources made available to me. 
As I become stronger, I cast aside the shield
And walk unencumbered among the family of humanity, 
giving and receiving. 
The radiation of unconditional love awakens the joy 
of living in everyone I meet. 
I greet this day with Christ in my heart.  
  
Rev. Carol Parrish-Harra

        


image:  "Community of Light", February 2025, my backyard

Thursday, March 13, 2025

Novena, Day 4

 "Don't be afraid to struggle." I am pondering those words that were written on a poster that depicted a determined young girl who was either hiking or running. I was at the dentist office, and I did not have a chance to really investigate it. The words have stayed with me, though. This morning the words, "stay planted" came to mind and I wrote them in my journal. I interpret those words as an encouragement to be present, and yes, connect. Connect with love. 

Our roots are deepening. We are stronger than we know, and others, the seen and the unseen, are standing with us.    
    
Day 4

I greet this day with love in my heart. 
I embrace all of humanity, seeking qualities to admire. 
Though I often have not been able to see clearly,
With love I will tear down walls of separation 
which have been built. 
In their place I will build bridges of connection. 
I love the ambitious, for they inspire me to greater action. 
I love those who fail, because they teach me endurance. 
I love the young, for the faith that they hold, 
the elders, for the wisdom they offer. 
I embrace the ugly and the beautiful, 
the rich and the poor, the meek and the bold. 
I acknowledge the spark of divinity 
that resides in each life I meet. 
I greet this day with love in my heart. 
  
Rev. Carol E. Parrish-Harra     









      
I am thinking that this photograph was taken in British Columbia, but I do not know for certain.  Canada, and the friends I have there, are on my heart and mind.      
 


Wednesday, March 12, 2025

Novena, Day 3

 Because of what is going on in our nation I think some of us will struggle with the second line of this novena. Yet, I appreciate the reminder to watch my fight or flight responses.  When my mind calms, I  hearing the psalmist singing, "Be still and know that I am God."

I am enjoying going through some of my older photographs. I love this image because I see a choir singing in the blooming.  Maybe I will get to the point when I can hear the singing. For now, I simply celebrate the joy of form and color.  
This morning the wind is rising, and the sky is overcast. It is a beautiful hymn of praise. 

I greet this day with love in my heart.
I will love those I confuse as enemies
and find ways to know them as friends.
I encourage my friends as they become
my brothers and sisters.
I will find ways to applaud.
I release harmful words and thoughts.
When I am tempted to criticize,
I will find compassion.
When I am moved to praise,
I will speak out clearly.
I will join the birds, the wind, and the sea
as nature speaks praise for the Creator.
I will become as music with the children of God.
As I remember my resolve, I will uplift my life.
I greet this day with love in my heart.    
   
  Rev. Carol E. Parrish-Harra
The Book of Rituals          
          



Tuesday, March 11, 2025

Novena, Day 2

 The Blue Nile Lilies are not yet in bloom, but I love the movement in this photograph.  Life is energy. May we always radiate love, no matter who and what we are facing. 
This photograph was taken in my front garden years ago. The lily, which is at least 30 years old, continues to do well. I draw inspiration from all the plants in my garden, but the older ones sing a special message: "Simply be."  

Day 2  
I greet this day with love in my heart. 
Henceforth, I look on all life with compassion. 
I realize the rebirth within myself. 
I love the sun, and it warms me. 
Yet, I love the rain for it cleanses my spirit. 
I love the darkness for it shows me the stars. 
I welcome happiness for it expands my heart; 
I endure sadness for it teaches me compassion. 
I experience the challenges of my life 
as they aid in my growth. 
I greet this day with love in my heart.    
 
Rev. Carol E. Parrish-Harra 
The Book of Rituals      



        


Monday, March 10, 2025

Novena Day 1

 I first shared this novena in 2005 and again in 2021.  This morning, as I watched the morning light change, it came to mind once more.  A novena is a cycle of 9 days of prayer. Exactly why, I do not know, but it feels appropriate to begin the novena again.   

The photograph is from some years ago. I have always loved it. Even though firmly rooted, the rose has a sense of expectancy, maybe even longing to greet what is beyond the gate. I believe the conversation has already begun.     



I greet this day with love in my heart. 
This is the great secret to happiness. 
This unseen power of love can open the hearts 
of humanity and bless all of life. 
I will make love my most effective tool, 
Bringing the energy of life to myself and others. 
Love will melt the blocks within and around me. 
Opening me to the joy of life. 
I liken love to the rays of the sun which can 
soften the cold of the harshest day. 
I greet this day with love in my heart.   
 
Rev. Carol E. Parrish-Harris, 
The Book of Rituals  

   
   



Thursday, March 6, 2025

Lent Begins

 I think my time at last night's Ash Wednesday prayer station may be one of my favorite recent ministry moments.  My community worships in a historic chapel on the campus of a larger sister congregation. The chapel is a small and unadorned building, but the beautiful acoustics makes one forget that the walls are bare and the benches have no cushions. The church who rents this space to us hosts an Ash Wednesday service in the chapel, and some of our members often attend.  When it came time for the imposition of ashes, I had been asked to be at the prayer station, and I happily accepted. I love praying with those I know, and those I don't. 

One beautiful young woman came to me for a blessing. In her arms was a small baby with beautiful dark eyes that looked right at me. I smiled at him and he smiled back. I placed my hand on his heart and lifted a prayer of gratitude for this young child. He just wanted to chew on my finger. With everything that is going on in our nation it would have been easy to pray a prayer of concern. However, worry did not surface for a second, only joy.  I am still smiling this morning.   
After everyone who wanted to take part had received their ashes, anointing oil, or a prayer (or all of the above as I encouraged them to do because these are strange times), the pastors paused and faced the congregation for the benediction. It was humbling to see the people sit quietly, most with ashes on their forehead. In that moment, I felt the unity that continues to hold us. We are not alone.     
As I drove home, I thought of Jesus and Mary. I have seen one, just one, drawing of the adult Jesus laughing in a small church in San Jose. I cannot remember ever seeing a picture of Mary smiling, but less laughing.  Maybe we need to let the Beloved Ones lighten up a bit. 
Blessings on your noble journey.  Make room for your beautiful soul. Chat with a baby when you can, but make sure to listen. These little ones are coming into our world with much wisdom to share.    
   
"The spiritual journey involves going beyond hope and fear, stepping into unknown territory, continually moving forward. The most important aspect of being on the spiritual path may be to just keep moving...
Rather than indulge or reject our experience, we can somehow let the energy of the emotion, the quality of what we're feeling pierce us to the heart. This is a noble way to live. It’s the path of compassion - the path of cultivating human bravery and kindheartedness."        
Pema Chodron 
     



 image: Coyote Hills Regional Park, 2025